When you are both ready.
Two Ducks is a private, gentle way for couples to signal openness to connection — without pressure or awkward conversations.
How does it work?
You choose Open or Quiet Night. You’re notified only if both partners independently choose Open. If it’s not a match, nothing is revealed.
Do we see each other’s responses?
No. You only see a connection if both of you choose Open. Individual responses are not shown.
Can this app be used to pressure or coerce someone?
No. Two Ducks is designed to reduce pressure, not create it. There’s no “why,” no scorekeeping, and no visibility into an individual response, only a shared match when both choose Open. If you feel pressured in any way, you don’t owe anyone an explanation.
What does “Quiet Night” mean?
It can mean anything: tired, stressed, not in the mood, or just wanting a calm evening. It’s not a rejection. it’s simply “not tonight.”
What happens if one partner chooses Open and the other doesn’t?
Nothing happens. The app doesn’t reveal who chose what. The goal is to keep things gentle and prevent awkwardness or pressure.
Is Two Ducks only about sex?
No. “Open” can mean openness to connection: closeness, affection, warmth, or intimacy. Couples can define it however they like.
Is this private?
Yes. Two Ducks is built to minimize data and avoid unnecessary exposure. We don’t show individual responses to partners, only a mutual match. For details, see the Privacy Policy.
Can my partner tell I used the app if they don’t have it?
Pairing features require both partners to use the app. If you’re not paired, your activity won’t create a match with anyone.
What if I’m in a relationship where consent isn’t respected?
Your safety comes first. Two Ducks is meant for consensual, respectful relationships. If you feel unsafe, coerced, or controlled, consider reaching out to someone you trust or a local support resource.
How do we get the best experience with Two Ducks?
Use it as a gentle signal, not a negotiation tool. Celebrate matches, and treat Quiet Night as normal. The best outcomes come when both partners feel safe, unpressured, and respected.